Hi everyone - I also wanted to add that saturday is H birthday and I dont know what to do. I bought him gifts and I'm making a cake but I dont want to make him uncomfortable. Also after the way H was on our s birthday I dont want to do too much. I dont want H to think that I'm pursuing him and I'm still really upset that H didn't do anything for s birthday except to come home for cake for 1 hour and then left. I hate that he is not the father to our s that he used to be.
