sg, the private message doesn't work..unless it works for you as a moderator?
CMC, it's creepy at first knowing your H has found you on this BB. I am pretty sure my H somehow discovered me here too and at first I quit posting. There are things I've said on this board that I've never said other than here and he knows about it. Then I thought heck if he cares enough to snoop maybe this is a good tool! I am even pretty sure he posted (*harrassed*) to me a few times. Do what is best for you, and stay safe. Please check in at least once in a while and say hi so we know you are ok. OK?
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