MCC, I have learned the I can never say what I would do if something happened until it happened but....... I think the second time would be easyier to show her where the door is.
Husband- You're right, no one can say what they'd do unless they're in that situation. This is my H's 2nd A. I told myself the first time that I wouldn't go through it again. Here I am. This time with a child to worry about too. Part of me feels like a fool for wanting to try, but then part of me knows that the A is all about his insecurities and not about me. I didn't MAKE him do this. I'd give him an ultimatum, but as odd as it sounds, given the circumstances and it being a 2nd A, I'm still not ready for the possibility that he'll say.....Fine, I'm gone. There were too many good times between the last time & this time, for me to let go yet. If it had all been bad times, it would be easier.
SueS
Last edited by SueS; 11/29/0702:01 PM.
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
