It does really suck, and its the hardest thing any of us have had to go through! Its ok to mourn, its ok to be sad, just don't let it consume you, I know that is so hard, because your life is falling apart, but hold onto the fact that you are a strong Man you have fought hard, and are still prepared to fight! So even if you don't save your marriage in the long run you will be good, because you are strong! You can face anything! Focus on you and your kids, and let your wife do what she is going to do, you can't control her or what she is doing. You can only control what you do and how you react.
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
