Anytime you are dealing with an MLCer, man or woman, its a tough go. I think more men go through this than women, that is why you see fewer of them return on this board, my XW is an MLCer, or at least I think she is. Looking at your stich, I noticed your W left and came back. I can't tell you if she will come back or not, I do know that dealing with this MLCer junk is the toughest thing I had to do in my life. You will have to endure a lot of hardship with no guarantees.