Trixi - I think you're right on with your next moves, for what it's worth. Not towards D (as you said) but towards your future. It's much easier to accomodate for him joining you than it is to scramble for plans when he decides NOT to join you.. at least in my experience. So plan a wonderful Christmas and New Year's for yourself... that way you KNOW it'll be good.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread