Well, whatever you decide, I think either staying in the room or not can still work to your favor. I don't necessarily think that what he's giving you is going to be all that you'll get. I mean, you have a whole separate life apart from him right now, and you haven't really given that up. Last time, you gave it up too soon, and you really weren't at this confident level.

I understand though about what your getting. really it's fear that it will go away if you move out of the bedroom. But you can just act like you wanted to make it perfect before moving into it if he asks why you took so long to move in there.

Plus, I think it would be a great idea to say you'd like to start dating again. you can pretend your roomates that have a little crush on each other. Just because you move into that room, doesn't mean you can't snuggle with him.. or that he won't JOIN you in your new comfy futon. ;\) especially when you walk past him with some great perfume and sexy lingerie and let him catch a glimpse underneath as you say naughty night! haha, I wrote nighty first, but immediate saw it and thought of the word naughty!

I think he'll be beggin for more if you do that, and I think it will help with your R in the long run too. if you had kids, I would probably be against it, but w/o, it's a little easier to "play the game".

glad you had a good time with your mom! have fun dancing! I wish I could do that too!

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."