All I can hold on to is myself, kids and this site

[BEAUTYandWAH]

lwb, thank you for stopping by.
yes, I am so glad to find this site. I started coming to this site right after I found out his affair so I think I am on the right path so far.

Today is a pretty good day.
I went to yoga class. I ate healthy meal. I spent quality time with my kids and in-laws watching 'x'mas sherk' 'grinch' (spell?)


Also, I talked to one my good friend today and feel lots better. Those who know about his affair, think I don't need him and I will find better person... Relationship with myH is so complicated and right now I don't even know what I want. My situation is too far away from 'happy life with H' right now. Well, it's been only a few weeks since he moved out. I guess it is still very beginning stage.


One thing I would like to ask you and everyone is how do/did you talk to your parents/siblings about separation/divorce.. I have a plan to go home this winter about 3 weeks and am afraid I will have to disclose that myH is not living with me anymore (I know my daughter will tell everyone!)