I DID save my marriage once. For eleven years. If you convince someone to stay now, that doesn't set you up for a lifetime of success. You may only be applying a Band-Aid for now.
Standing down is not weakness, my friends. Standing down is realizing that there is something in life more important than your marriage: Yourself.
If you don't take care of yourself, you are of no use to anyone else.
Standing down is acknowledging, accepting and exercising the strength within yourself. Standing down means you are done taking crap and will no longer be walked on.
Hanging on is simply fearing the unknown...
There IS a life to be lived. This place is a great resource, but at some point you have to accept when it is final. Some of you folks have been dinking around on here for two or three years. That dead horse isn't going to trot for you!
Think about what you have been missing out on!
Go out and play for Pete's sake...
Best regards,
Moon
Argue your limitations and sure enough, they are yours. - Richard Bach
