Originally Posted By: lizzy

H seemed fine when I got home tonight. He had made dinner for the girls per my directions. He also tried to clean up after dinner. I helped and thanked him for his effort. (I had to clean up their mess from last night.)


Don't worry about the setbacks - They happen. Your H will forget and things will get back to where you were last week.

I wouldn't put too much thought into what he said to your FIL. How he behaves with you is the most important thing - He's at home with you and the D's most of the time, and he lives at his office. Yes, that is a man who has moved on and doesn't want his family ;\)

Seriously, after being separated for five weeks, he won't go away - That doesn't sound like a guy who is 'done'. That said, much like my sitch, it's almost impossible to detach and move on when they send so many mixed signals.