The fact that you were able to be strong for OW's H is a testament to your strength as well. In my reply to you on my thread I mentioned my upbeat attitude. I know what it was that did it. One of my wife's on-line friends sent me an email telling me that she went through this as well. I have spoken to her in the past and she has always been able to offer sound advice. The revelation that she was part of such a sitch made all the advice she had ever given so much more meaningful.
We need to share our strength and experience with each other, whenever we can.
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