not a peep

[Trixi]

Hmmm....
Well, for now I am going to try to find a house and go dark.

I think that my H is convinced I will always be here no matter what he does.

I am being mistreated (as a wife). I expect that my H act like a Husband. I understand that he is not at the point where he can do that. He has made it clear he does not want to put anything into our relationship at this point. He might in the future, but I should make my plans without considering him. (Afterall, HE does it-- just look at Christmas and New Years.)

I think that it is time for my H to realize what he will be losing. I have not given him the space to miss me. (Or maybe I should say, I have not ENFORCED the boundaries so that he would miss me.)

For now, I will not make any moves towards D because I don't want one. I will move forward with my growth (including getting out of this house) and hope and pray that God restores our marriage.

I don't know if that answers your question- but that's pretty much where I am at today.