Thanks for the hugs jar. You amaze me how strong you are. Need to go check on your day......

TAL

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You don't want him with you out of convience ya know


Its almost good this has been dragging out, because months ago, if H came back to me, I would have taken him, even out of convenience. Now I wouldn't. Nope.

I returned OW's H phone call (missed one yesterday). Thought he had a cold. Nope, he was crying. He was a little mortified, but I just talked and let him get himself together, didn't mention the crying. He's one of us, guys, hurt and lonely, sad and scared. Doesn't want any of this, doesn't want out, but can't do this anymore. I hope I helped him feel a bit better. I think I can speak the truth when I tell him I know exactly how he feels.