Why is Jeff being bashed so hard for having big swings of emotions on a holiday, on his birthday, and when his W suddenly has a spurt of nice?
Frank, I know you care but what are you trying and expecting to accomplish? Jeff says he is done, he no longer cares. I don't totally believe that but it is what he says. Respect it.
Jeff, that long silence when you get an unexpected call from W and she is nice. Caught you off guard? I bet you didn't know how to react! It's easy to know now how it could have been handled different, but at the time of happening it catches you by surprise and you bumble. Yeah, me too. On those sporadic ocassions when H is nice and I see a shadow of the man I love(d) I know I don't react how I wish I did. I just don't have much practice in reacting to a nice H anymore. I wish I did, and just maybe some day I will. Until then, I can only do as best I can when I am caught off guard and learn by my mistakes. You too.
And Jeff, I did not use fW like you do. She isn't former yet. Don't count your chickens before the eggs hatch.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
