I said I separated from my husband when we had been married about a year. I also agreed it would be nice to get away and have time alone, but that I couldn't see that happening since it takes both of us to run one house. I really do wish I could have some alone time.....I think it would help a lot. But, that doesn't mean I am about to pack up my bags.
I don't think I'm in a place right now to do what you asked of me. I'm sorry. But, I know me....and I have got to want to do this or it won't work out. I cannot make myself do certain things when I don't want it and right now, I am sorry to say that I just don't want it.....not today. I don't care right now if it works or not. I'm just in one of those moods. I'm tired, I don't feel good and I don't feel like trying to talk to him about our MR. I feel like we have been around the same mountain so many times until we have beaten a path down and still have accomplished anything.
I am not saying that your idea is not good, but I just don't feel the timing is right. I feel out of whack and he is too tired today too, so It is going to have to wait until a better time.
I'm not in a good place, but I think I'll be okay. I hope. As long as I have you all supporting me.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!