I will of course post to you again. Being in the Uk I am on a different time spot. I have just nipped on quickly to check up on you but my eldest D is nagging me to get on the PC to do homework.
Try getting those books I mentioned. They helped me as much as AD's did. Infact, in the long run they are becoming a sort of 'bible' to me. I go back to them time and again.
Email me your email - mine is in my profile. There are a couple of things I would like to say but not on the boards.
I know you may not feel like it but you do have a lot going for you. YOU are a good person and so is your husband - it's all about getting on the same page at the same time.
(((((((HUGS)))))))
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength