WAW staying, I'm leaving to give her space..

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GFI,

thats what I hope new C can do...create wiggle room. If she continues to be the way she has been the past 24-48 hours, then I cannot approach her at all with any type of conversation. I didn't get any further than 'I'm on the fence about whether me moving out is the best decision' last night, and I didn't even bring it up in conversation, she did and I was very calm about it. She is avoiding virtually any conversation or eye contact with me.

I see her on the 'edge of the cliff ready to jump at the drop of a hat'. I have been validating and listening and what she is telling me is she can't make it work with me in the house and I need to leave for awhile if there is to be any chance. Like I said, I will keep my options open, assume nothing, and lie low for the moment. Maybe she will be better tonight, maybe not.