Thanks for the article B. Forgiveness is something I struggle a lot with. Some days I feel at peace and totally forgiving, some days I'm filled with anger and resentment and think, what's the point, W doesn't care anyway.
Forgiveness is a lot like DBing though--it's primarily something you do for you, not for your S, but with it may come the happy side effect of getting your S back. I think I'm going in the right direction, cause I want to forgive, it will just take time.
Me: 43 W: 41 Together 2009, Married 2011 Sons 10 and 6, Daughter 5 Bomb 2/21/21. W moved out 10/2021