Hanging on for dear life

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Yes, unfortunately it really is MLC....looking back it probably began about 3 years ago...unhappiness with his job...we moved 3 times in 10 months so he could switch jobs 3 times...has never liked the house we bought in 2003 (told me after the closing). The whole ILYNILWY thing came up at the end of Aug when the kids left...of course he said he's been unhappy for 15+ years and was just waiting until the kids left....but bought me a new wedding ring in March 07 and took me on a wonderful ann. trip in June 07...never mentioned his unhappiness then?! Anyway....it's good one day and bad the next....I do attract kindness from him some days and others I can do no right....I'm learning how to treat him to get the "right" reactions, but it's a crap shoot some days. The MOW (is supposedly happily married) but sure seems to make time to see H every lunch hour, after work for coffee (2-3 hours)and the calls between the two at all hours of the day and night are annoying (I'm learning to ignore them. I'm trying to leave it in God's hands...it's hard...I've lost some of my faith...but I know he won't hand me anything I can't handle.