recovery??

[LuvMyHusband]

Hi everyone,
lol. I am wondering who is more cautious...me or him?? Neither of us wants things to go back to where they were before. We both know what we want and don't want. We are considering moving 4 hours south of where we are now. He is not really happy here, no family. I have lived away from my family for most of my life so it doesn't bother me but it does him. So, we are talking and checking things out.

The hardest part will be learning to trust again, for both of us. It's hard for me to believe that the OW is gone but it sure seems like it. We are taking it slow. He does know that if he goes back to her again that's it. I can't handle it. I think he really does want our M and our family. We'll see. I feel like a cat on a hot tin roof though.