I was actually trying to say that he'll chase more if you have some boundaries and if you show that he needs to respect you by not trying to be with two women at the same time.
Yeah, that's been the theme here lately...
I have a hard time just going cold turkey. It tends to make me bounce back and forth. I seem to have better luck if I pull back a little more, and a little more. I've spent, oh, maybe 1/3 of the time with him the last few days in comparison to what I would normally.
I'm reticent to cut down on our phone conversations at the moment. Mostly because, it seems to be sinking in with him. The conversations have gone up in frequency since the blow up over the weekend, and most importantly, are giving me insight into myself.
