You guys are basically describing the exact scenerio that I believe was going on in my house for years. It took the D bomb as you all know for me to finally figure it out.

To Packerfan re: the hysterectomy thing. I just got mine done in October. Now, I have not had the chance to even have sex since then, but I know I want to and physically am desiring to, so maybe that will help you have some sort of hope?? I'll let you all know how it goes after Dec 15 \:\) when I finally get to try out the new & improved me.

Last edited by RedHeadWife; 11/28/07 10:00 PM.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10