thank heavens for that, that he goes to IC. In a way, my H is also there, broken and unable to give of himself because he doesn't even know what he wants/who he is. It makes sense. I hope that in time he sees how unreasonable he is being.
It will be a long road but it should be for the better, he's very toxic now and needs lots of help. Being a cop adds a new dimension to the whole problem, I too am married to one, and there are lots of things that the families are unaware of.
A great read is "I love a cop" , for families of officers, will teach you a lot.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
