Just so you know...I wasn't saying that you should kick him to the curb and never look back. I was actually trying to say that he'll chase more if you have some boundaries and if you show that he needs to respect you by not trying to be with two women at the same time. I personally think your chances are better if you are less available. Could you cut down on the amount of calls that you make to him or the number you are available to take? Could you be less available for these little nightly visitations complete with cuddling? If you haven't started truly living your own life (GAL), perhaps you need some other interests (and I'm not talking about other men).
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
