HHmmm. Besides the hostility, what do you think you wife would do if you just moved yourself right back in? Would she move out? Legally she couldn't do anything about it, but it would take MONTHS for her to get over that. IF you do that, you would have to make sure you STAY there. Don't move back out if she asks you to. Don't get angry and move back out. Make sure you're ready to stay put if you do that. You'll lose credibility if you flip-flop.
As for your MC appt. Do you know who the therapist is?? How did you find this person? Were they recommended by someone whose marriage has been saved? Personally, the mc that I go to would never go down the d road with us. She always kept us steered toward working on our marriage and ourselves.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
