Still Frustrated-but moving ahead

[Yoyowife]

Penny,
Sounds good to me. I can guarantee when he left you were on his mind. I know there were seeds of doubt in his mind. You were so pleasant and he was wondering "now, why was I left her?" If you had been all cranky and such he would have said "I know why I left her." You showed him your good side, you'll be on his mind.

He was very pleasant gave me a hug and a small kiss when he left. It is so strange where is he coming from...Is it because he has the freedom to do what he wants?

Yes, he is seeing detachment in you. He has seen the cage door open and may be thinking "Wow, she really is letting go? Is that what I really want?"

Penny, you did a great job. With the detachment, you have shown him that you are a strong desirable woman. I could certainly take lessons from you! The detachment is also very good for you whether he comes back or not.