thanks yoyo and TAL,

I am back I kept it real light and just visited like there isn't anything wrong. He even held the door open..(Whats with that) maybe she is installing manners!!!HaHAha...He was very pleasant gave me a hug and a small kiss when he left. It is so strange where is he coming from...Is it because he has the freedom to do what he wants?

I have no idea but I have become alot stronger because I wouldn't be able to handle this last year. It is a mazing how much stronger and wiser we have become.