I have made some calls and his commander has ordered him to go for an evaluation. I kept it anonymous mostly, so I'm hoping he doesn't realize it was me. He's FURIOUS about the evaluation. I don't think he's cutting, but he's definitely gotten into some things that go even beyond what I could consider relatively harmless S&M/bondage stuff.
He is in school for his bachelor's degree still (getting deployed seriously screwed with his schooling). He was working in a genetics lab until he screwed that up.
He met the OW in school (ironically the same way we met, in a class), she is doing her senior year abroad in England. Ironically, if he does feel inferior to me, she will also be finished with her bachelor's before him, so if he doesn't get his act together he'll be in the same situation anyways.
He started as a psychology major (same major as OW) and changed to plant biology when he got back from his deployment and went back to school. He has talked about grad school and I have always tried to be supportive of him no matter what because it doesn't matter to me whether he has a degree or in what. However, nothing I do is right apparently because if I don't jump up and down over his every idea I'm not supportive, and when I inquire into how school is I am pressuring him. *rolls eyes*
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
