ba,

Going to post the same advice I gave to Not Yet:

advice?

Read the resources at the top. DO NOT use the timeline. DO NOT try and figur out what stage your Husband is in. Read MLC for Dummies.

Really try and figure out if your H is having a MLC.

No Relationship Talks.

No Pressure.

Do not seem needy.

Do NOT LET him damage your self esteem.

Realize you can only control yourself.

Learn to validate: "I'm sorry you feel that way."

Do not let him talk to you that way. (that is a personal thing for me.) Be firm but not antagonisitc.

Do not get your hopes up with little things from him right now.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet