"Maybe me de-pantsing her quickly the other day did some good. BB seems to pay more attention to me than normal in the last couple of days."
A few thoughts...
-- Well, maybe next time, skip flipping her over before you de-pants her. Simply lift her butt up and de-pants her.
-- What happened to BB's O?
-- Have you tried a more upright posture, like kneeling, when you are on top, rather than the lying on top and holding your torso up with your arms thing?