Typical MLC story...H of 23yrs gave me the speech in August when our two kids left for college...ILYNILWY. Says he's in love with OW (married) they have been good friends for 3yrs. Says she doesn't know how he feels...been through hell and back over past 3 months...done some things right, not all. Began C in Sept and convinced him to come with me the past two weeks. He doesn't know what he wants...confused...as for working things out he's at a 3 on a scale of 1-10. Says he's being completely honest for the first time in his life. H moved into ourfinished basement this past weekend. Needs his space while he decides our fate. I'm reading everthing I can get my hands on. Know I need to focus on myself, but can't. Tired of feeling so miserable. Can't eat or sleep. Lost 30 pounds in 3 months (not healthy, although I think I look pretty good). Can't concentrate at work and can't afford to lose my job because of it! I'm glad I found this site and know I'm not alone even though it feels that way.

Last edited by ba065; 11/28/07 08:15 PM.
Me:43
H:48
M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs
2 kids
ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07
H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08
Affair continues
Back home but not emotionally