Something I was going to tell you Michelle is that up until the day my H called me and said he made a mistake I had barely talked to him. I had finally accepted the D. He had been so cold and so mean to me. It seemed like it was so easy for him to just move on. I cried everyday and I couldn't understand how he could just write everything off and never look back.
I think once the fighting was over and reality set in with OW he "woke up". He started missing me. I have not yet forgiven him and I have told him we have a lot to work on and I have a LOT of questions. But, the ball is in my court now, he even said "this is your decision". Keep in mind that he came to this realization while I was 1000 miles away and only talking to him about once every two weeks for ten minutes or so. We don't have to put our GAL in their face...they sense it. I have to go, I will check on you later. I am so sorry you are here.
I am so glad to hear your are in law school! You should have a lot of connections. What kind of job did your H have? I am wondering if he may feel inferior to you as you are bettering yourself. I think my H kind of felt that way throughout our R. I will write more later. Hang in there.
