Besides, xh just told me to stop during our last conversation, as he was confused about my intentions. So, I'm going to stop.
(stop saying nice things to him, or making out with him?)
that makes no sense. i'd say your intentions are perfectly clear. you love him, and you want the two of you to be together. EXCLUSIVELY together.
I would suggest you tell that to him, and then tell him that if he wants you to stop, then to give you a better reason, or you'll keep telling him how you feel.
(the SEX/making out on the other hand.. is understandably confusing )
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle