FLTC My understanding is forgiveness is automatic and trust is earned. If what you say is true I agree it is on her. I agree on your approach you are not giving up but triaging resources where it will do the most good.
I'm glad it is working out over there in the West. It was a daily scrap then. Funny how one got used to it. There were days I talked to people I knew were Muj and we agreed someday we may meet in some cafe in Cario on friendlier terms over chi.
"All I want is a weeks pay for a day's work" Steve Martin
