Single makes a good point about calling the cops. Because of your past issues of A abuse she could easily escalate an agruement. Dont fall for it. It will definitely hurt your case. Just "kill her w kindness". Bad choice of words ;). Patience is the key. You have no control. Let go. Why is it that we put so much stock in what our spouses r spewing? We r so insecure during this difficult time. Our worlds have been ripped apart. Dont believe anything they say.... Because they dont know what they want. Their feelings can change just as quickly as they changed the first time. Hey this is pretty theraputic. Writing what I preach that is... lol
