I know that I would be curious. I find myself looking for any clue that I can get my hands on to understand the inner workings of Ms.Hdog's mind.

And, Balto, I'm not sure if your wife is eligible for sainthood, or if she's just ignorant (intentionally or unintentionally) about temptations and powers of attraction. Either way, a little passion in defense of the relationship could have gone a long way toward letting you know that she cares. Even Reagan said, "Trust, but verify."

Hairdog