I know, dealing with friends and family is sometimes difficult. How long are you going to wait for her? How can you just roll over and let her do these things? Set an ultimatum date! Look at what she's done to you, you could never trust her again!
Many friends are supportive, but I do hear things like this. It is all a personal choice--is my W, and any potential future R with her, worth what I am going through now, the difficulty of this whole process? It probably would be easier to just give up, in the short run...but she is worth it to me, I never want to look back and say I didn't leave the door open, that I didn't try, so here I am
Me: 43 W: 41 Together 2009, Married 2011 Sons 10 and 6, Daughter 5 Bomb 2/21/21. W moved out 10/2021