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Wow, Jar lots has happened since I last read your thread. Your wife is acting like a 5 year old instead of your daughter!

When you pointed out she had sent the text to other person I bet she wanted to throw up! I can imagine how I would have felt if that happened to me!

You are remarkably calm and cool! We can all learn from you.

You are an incredible man and father. No one can take that away from you!




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Thanks Yoyo.. she is now giving me crap about this Saturday. We are having D3's party from 12-2.. some friends of ours are having their party from 4-?. She thinks it's unfair for D3 to go from one party to the next. Sounds like she's trying to control the sitch. Oh well.. she'll have a blast!!



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Forlorn.. have you read "Love must be tough?" Sounds like the last chapter is definitely us. Impossible expectations.

That is soooo much our problem. She will probably never see it though.

Wish there was a way to take the knowledge I've learned and put it into her head!!



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Not yet, it's on order now. Probably by next week. I can't wait to read it, I've seen it referred to in so many posts.

Hah, I got the belt too, and I had to go to the closet and pick which one. My granny used to make us go pick a switch from a bush. MAN that is worse than a belt. My cousin brought back a little twig once, not pretty.

Mine just get a swat or two if absolutely neccessary, but like yours, mine are so good most times it's rare.


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jh,

They will sometimes realize it when they fall flat on their face, but sometimes that doesn't even help. Sometimes they are just not able to come to the level at which your at.

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Jarhead,

I must try to keep up with your thread. Leave it for an hour and pages go on!!! \:D

As I have said before, the kids will respect you for the discipline, they crave boundaries as it makes them feel safe. I have perfected 'the voice', followed by the glare and then the backside swat.

Funny thing was, S7 was playing up after Judo on Sunday so I went for the backside swat. S7 spots it, tries to block it and then complains that I hit '10 times harder than Mummy'. W and I had a good laugh at this, as she stated 'well I wish I could hit as hard as Daddy'.

Don't much believe in the 'reason with your children'. I was smacked as a child and my psychiatrist says it has done me no harm LOL.

Your W needs to understand (looks like in little words), that the 'cake and eat it' has ended.


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Oh yeah... I remember the "switch" from my Grandma!!

Looks like I'll lock another real soon!!

So.. nothing for a while, then all of the sudden she calls to check on D's. She's at Toys R Us and is shopping for D3's b-day. She keeps calling and asking questions.

Not sure what her deal is.. she sounds very sad.



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hey jar. You are right about Saturday, D3 will have a blast party hopping, then crash that night. OM's kid coming to the party still?

W is sad. Sad, confused, foggy, needy........I could go on.

No more email talk?

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Nope.. matter of fact.. it's coming up on 7:30 and she still hasn't called the D's. D3 is in bed now.. D5 will be soon.

Oh well!!



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My wife is beginning to show the disregard for her children that I have witnessed happening on this site. It's amazing how they profess that their children come first and then end up treating them with such a lack of caring.

I imagine the same holds true for the husbands who have walked away as well. No discrimination here! They're all nuts...


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