was talking to a friend at work about how db works. she does not unerstand how i can wait, and not give wife and ultimatum. she asked me how long i was going to wait the situation to turn around. i told her when God gave me the inner voice to stop trying i would do it. she just looked at me. i was thinking to my self. what would a fair time frame be. well how long are my children's stability worth in time. is my wife worth waiting for. i could not look my kids in the face if i just caved in and gave up. and my wife, we have been married 19years. of course she is not the same person she was months ago. but that doesn't mean she will stay like this. i can guarantee she is not happy with her situation right now. only time will tell. for now i wait, and work on myself.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
