But, if a man works hard.......is it okay if he doesn't feel like having sex that night?
In my opinion: no, it's not ok. He may be too physically exhausted, to have a physical response. But if his wife tells him that she needs sexual intimacy, then he owes her SOME kind of sexual intimacy when she asks for it.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle