Surely I don't understand this statement from you correctly:
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Sandi2, how much time do you spend EACH day focused SOLEY on your husbands physical needs. THAT is what is important.
Is that what my entire life is suppose to be about? Just focused on my husbands physical needs? I'm not suppose to over-do myself in anything or at anytime in case my H needs physical attention.....meaning of course, sex.
That is why you are mad at your wife for working hard is b/c it effects her sex drive? But, if a man works hard.......is it okay if he doesn't feel like having sex that night? I don't believe I have ever heard a man (or woman for that matter) say that he shouldn't work hard making a living and doing the jobs around the house that need to be done----in case his wife may want to have sex and it could effect his sexual drive from high to low.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!