Trying to Cope, but It's Too Hard

[ms ladybug]

Hi Stacy,
The first few days are so difficult. None of this is easy. But, those first days is hard to even see straight, and the pain is tremendous. This is a great group here with lots of advice. There are people here to both give you hugs and set you straight when you've screwed up. Please come here often. We'll get you through.

Please read Divorce Remedy. Meanwhile, do whatever it takes to not cry in front of your h. WHatever you need to do!! When he comes over, you are HAPPY. You are CONTENT! You need nothing from him. If you need to fall apart when he leaves, you can. FTLC said it. Desperation and neediness will only make him pull back more. Doesn't make a lot of sense. Read the book.

Welcome aboard.

I also have a homeopathic remedy for the first few days of grief if you find your not able to function well. PM me if you're interested.