I asked him today if he would mind me going to the same therapist as him, because I do need to see someone, and the ones I have gone to so far really haven't helped. He said no he doesn't feel comfortable with me going, well I know why because he is being straight with the therapist, and know if I go I will tell it like it really was and is.
limbo, be aware that a lot of the times if the T is seeing your H as IC, he/she may not agree to see you. Something to do with conflict of interest or such. I know my W's IC has refused to see me individually. Unless you are doing MC as well usually they'll refer you to someone else.
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
