Sue - Don't get sucked into his confused, messed up world. Of course he's mopey and contrary and disagreeable - that's all part of the MLC script.
Focus on YOU and not so much on him and what he's doing. When he comes out of the fog, make sure he is amazed at how much growth and joy you have experienced while he's been lost - if it helps, just imagine how attractive that will make you. But really, do it FOR YOURSELF!
Thread #10 22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07 Goal: Live with confidence & enthusiasm!