Undercover...great news!

Im glad you didnt react when it would have been so easy to do so.
Your H sounds like he knows he what he is doing is wrong and bad for the marriage.

Remember, this issue in your R was caused by both parties, you will need to change as well to change the dynamic in your marriage.

Best of luck!

Hurtin: 32
WAW: 30
D: 8
Bomb: 10/05
Sep: 12/05
Back together 8/07
Bomb (OM): 11/07
Filed for D (me): 12/07