(((HUGS))) donna, I think at this point I wouldn't say anything...nothing to him at all, just all business, go in, do what you need to do re:divorce stuff, and let the rest of it go.
I've started a new "anything but" philosphy. kind of like as if, but instead its "anything but" with h...any venting, frustrations, even the stuff you are saying, expressions of sadness/wanting him to be happy, I will write here or in my journal or call a friend or my therapist...anything but to H.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
