I am glad that you spoke to OW H.. your not alone. He is going through the same crap you are.
I don't understand the mirror thing, that is bazaar. But knowone said they did any normal anyway. Maybe it is his guilty conscience. I don't know. I don't know what I would do now. If the Ow H's goes and files, yes there is a chance that will move things along with your H.. as bad as that might be, it will certainly test the situation and you will know who is going to stay with. You don't want him with you out of convience ya know. I know how hurt and upset you must be right now, I feel for you and im so sorry he is doing this to you. You are a sweet person and don't deserve any of it. You have your beautiful daughters to think about and they will always be with you.
He doesn't deserve to be happy after all the pain he's caused.
(((hugs))- whatever you decide we will support you.
Tal
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
