it could be his way of taking care of you, too. the mirror, I mean. h got me an ipod nano last year...we used to share his. I swear in the back of his mind it was making sure I was set with things so he could move on in relative peace. maybe your h knew you really wanted the mirror, so he can feel like he took care of that for you, and can keep on his rotten little path feeling like a good guy.
who knows.
in my case, yes, separation meant full fledged adultery. I guess what I was trying to say is that the full fledged adultery...the real life stuff...may not be nearly as exciting for him as he thinks it will be. they are in the throws of that infatuation stage still, when reality sets in and time passes, its bound to be less than they think it will be. no, this doesn't mean you have to wait around for him, but I know there have been a couple of people from here who did wait it out, and let their h's go, and those h's came running back.
just throwing that out there.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
