What I took notice of was her "not trying to bug you" comment to OM. What's that about?

If she truly still loves you, she better figure it out quick that she is throwing away her life as well as yours & the girls'!

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10