I woke up remembering something else my C said yesterday. She wants me to keep this in mind as well as communicate it to dh.

'Do you want your wife and family or do you want to be a single man? Because you can't have both.'

Right now, he has both.

I actually had a good evening last night even with OW being there. I can't stand her but I finally looked at her with pity. She knows she is in the wrong and I know I am doing the right thing. And if it ends up the dh can't step up and walks away and even ends up with her I know I have done the right thing.

No contact from dh. It just amazes me how he can turn something that he clearly had a part of (stalker) and get angry and withdraw from me.

Trying to smile and keep busy today.

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!